2017…

I’ve been up to so much since my last blog post.  So let’s recap…

Mid-October I was diagnosed with Skin Cancer.  Thankfully it was early stages, and I went into surgery and had 3 inches of my skin removed.  I have a pretty nasty scar on my back from it.  Obvs I won’t be tanning indoor anymore, instead good boys can pay for my spray tans.  Cost is $100 monthly.

www.EvelynMilano.com/tribute/

 

I spent Thanksgiving with Lindsey Leigh, we cooked up a meal last minute and had fun!  These are the candy yams I made… sooo delicious!

 

Shortly after, I headed off to Estes Park with my boyfriend for a few days.  We rented an amazing condo by a river.  As you may or may not know, I am obsessed with space, and I hit up an amazing observatory in Estes Park that had a $25,000 telescope.  I took the photo of the moon with my iPhone through the telescope, omg so amazing!

 

I headed off to NC early December for a few days.  Of course when I go home, I have to do it in style and show off my luxurious $$$ life.  I hit up some bars and a club to celebrate my birthday early with friends.  I spent time with my family and had a photoshoot with a photographer I’ve shot several times with in the past.  I also had some real time sessions and cash meets.

 

I celebrated my birthday with my girlfriends at the melting pot.  We had so much food, wine and champs! I got tons of presents from all my fans across the world, good boys!

 

January will be a busy month for me.  I will be moving into a bigger place, and then shortly after will be the 1 yr anniversary of my brother in law passing away. You can make things easier for me by furnishing my new place, I have a completely separate list on amazon for this, and most items will need to be paid for via amazon e-cert to my email so I can have them shipped directly to my place instead of the post office (big items wont fit in my mustang)  You can access the list via the link below.  You must be logged into amazon, on the left hand side choose “Furnish” to view items.

www.SpoilEvelyn.com

 

My new members site is taking off and doing amazing.  If you haven’t joined, you’re missing out!

www.WorshipEvelyn.com

 

xoxo

Evelyn

Coming soon…

Hi boys!

I have some exciting news!  I am in the process of designing my own MEMBERS website.  My previous one that was through clips4sale has already been shut down/deleted and no longer active.  The new one will be through a different company, and soooo much better!  It has tons of videos, photosets, a store where you can buy clothing from me and I will even be doing a live group webcam show once a month, every month!  New content will be added every week!

It’s been long over due, and I can’t wait to release it!  More features will be added in the future to it, such as live chat and private webcam shows!

Here’s a sneak peak at what’s to come!  Keep a look out, it should be live early November!  I’ll make an announcement when you can sign up and join 😉

www.WorshipEvelyn.com

Visit the link ABOVE to access my future Members Site!

 

 

I have added more information to my Real Time Session page on my website, you can now book cash point meets with me through that page as well as RT sessions.  Future travel dates where I am available for RT Sessions/Cashpoint meets will also be listed there!

 

PS – My 2018 USA Tour Dates will be announced in December! I have tons of cities planned, and can’t wait to session with my fans all over the USA!

 

xoxo

Evelyn

Best and Worst

This is a very personal blog entry, so if that’s not your thing, then skip it and don’t read it.  However, if you would like more insight into my life, then read on.

 

One of the best moments of my life was in January of 2015.  My brother married his partner of 8 years in NC.  I attended the ceremony and I will never forget it.  I have been a huge equal rights supporter for awhile now, and when gay marriage became legal in NC it was a very huge victory for all LGBTQ people.  Last year I even got a tattoo of the equal rights symbol on my left wrist (you can see it in videos)

One of the worst moments of my life happened last summer.  My brother in law, JP, who was 31 years old suffered a series of strokes.  It left him handicapped, disabled, unable to walk or talk.  Before this happened, he lived a healthy life and had zero problems other than being diabetic, which he had been since he was a kid.  This left my whole family devastated, and his too.  Every test you can imagine was done to try to figure out what caused a healthy individual to have so many strokes, including a brain biopsy.  We never got an answer as to why this happened.   He was in the hospital for weeks, before my brother who is a nurse finally decided it was time to bring JP home instead of being in the hospital another day.

My brother cleared out his kitchen, ordered a hospital bed, a hoyer lift, and did everything he could to make JP as comfortable as possible at home.  My brother had been out of work for weeks at this point, and his job was in jeopardy.  Now that JP was home, and my brother had to go back to work, someone had to take care of JP during the day.  He qualified for a CNA to come for a few hours a week to help take care of him, but since JP was diabetic, a CNA couldn’t administer his blood sugar tests, etc.  This pretty much rendered a CNA useless.  The family got together and made an online volunteer calendar.

I am sure a lot of you noticed the latter half of last year, I didn’t make any new videos for quite a few months.  I wasn’t around much.  This was because I was taking care of JP 3-4 days a week.  It was emotionally draining, as well as physically for me.  Seeing someone who you use to go out drinking with, had so many memories with, be in such condition, wasn’t easy.  I had to do everything you could imagine, from feeding JP to changing his diaper while I took care of him.  I also tried to help my brother out the best I could,  I would do laundry, vacuum, etc while JP was resting or asleep so that when my brother came home from work he didn’t have to worry about stuff like that.

It was a very long few months.  At first, JP started to get a little better.  He would laugh if you cracked a joke.  He was able to use two fingers to hold a  spoon, but you still had to move his arm to his  mouth.  He would give me the death stare when one of his therapists(who had the most annoying high pitched voice I have ever heard in my life) showed up every few days for rehabilitation, he did NOT like her at all! lol! But eventually, things went downhill, the progress he had gained vanished, and he lost the sparkle in his eyes.

It was around this time that I had reached a crucial point in my life.  If this happened to him, it could happen to me at any point.  Something could happen to me tomorrow for all I knew.  I knew I wasn’t happy living in NC.  I grew up in a very small southern country town, and still lived there. I never fit in there. I knew what I had to do, and immediately put my house on the market for sale and started looking at apartments in Colorado.  My house sold the 2nd day it was on the market, and by the time my birthday/christmas rolled around, I had to start packing my house up and prepare for the move.

JPs health started to drastically decline, and we knew he didn’t have much longer to live.  I had this deep sinking feeling that as soon as I left for Colorado, JP was going to pass away.  I left NC for CO, where I knew zero people.  It was a very long drive across the USA with my 2 dogs.  4 days after I arrived in CO,  JP passed away.  That feeling in my gut was right all along.  I was not able to attend JPs funeral, because I had just arrived in CO and didn’t have a pet sitter here to stay with my dogs.  It was a terrible feeling, being in a completely different state, not knowing anyone, and going through this alone.  I have had deaths in my family before, but JPs affected me differently as I was very close with him.  To this day, I still struggle with what happened.

This is the last two photos I have of me and JP together

 

Tomorrow isn’t guaranteed.  You only have one life.  If you aren’t happy, it’s time to change things so you can be happy.  Just because someone appears like everything is perfect, it could be far from perfect.  You never know what people are secretly going through in their life, especially with the industry that I am in, most personal stuff isn’t divulged.  I try to keep most personal stuff out of my work, but I felt this was something I needed to share.  Sex workers/adult industry people are just that, PEOPLE.  Human beings.  Things happen.

Mental illness/disorders are real.  Depression is real.  Anxiety is real.  I have experienced both.  Never feel like you are the only one suffering, because others suffer silently too.

 

This is the last photo I took of JP last year, on one of the days I was taking care of him, and it’s heartbreaking.

 

Cabo Mexico

I was originally supposed to be in Miami for a few days, and then Tampa for real time sessions/my tour.  Of course, hurricanes are taking over everywhere and I decided it was in my best interest to cancel the FL trip.  Since my bestie had already taken time off work, we quickly booked a last minute trip to Cabo, Mexico.  I was looking forward to laying on a beach with a drink in my hand.

I’m a member of the MileagePlus Club, which comes with awesome benefits.  If I am ever on a layover, you’ll find me in one of the United Clubs with a drink in my hand and food in front of me!  Airports are so busy and loud, getting away into a quiet area is nice.

Upon arrival in Cabo, my bestie and I immediately indulged in mexican beer, while taking a Niteflirt phone call from one of my long time subs, tutu ballerina britney.  The cab arrived, and we were whisked off to our luxury hotel.

The first few days were nothing but sunshine and mexican beer!  Unfortunately there was terrible undertow due to all the storms, and the water wasn’t safe to swim in, so I chilled by the pool looking out at the ocean with a drink in my hand!

on Monday, I took over the iWantClips snapchat account for the day!  I had so much fun teasing all my fanboy subs with photos of me on a beach, living the luxury life I deserve.  Did you miss the photos?  Well lucky you, I screenshot all of them and sent them out as a PTV on Niteflirt and iWantClips!

The last few days, a tropical storm had formed off the coast and the hotel went into panic mode, taking stuff off the walls and covering all the windows.  The weather was rainy and windy. But I wasn’t going to let that stop me from having any fun!

We went on an ATV excursion, where we went through the desert and the beach!  I grew up with ATVs, so of course I was at the head of the pack! (Photos of this in the NF and IWC PTV I sent out)  We headed out to get massages each day, facials and then spent the rest of the day bar and restaurant hopping.

My bestie knows me so well.  Some times I wake up in the middle of the night and get a snack, and she made sure that was covered with crackers! lol!

The day before I left, another one of my long term customers Dr. Anthony called me on Niteflirt and I drained him for $1000 while chilling in a pool with a bunch of ladies, who heard all about what I do for work and one of them even talked to him!  I love handing the phone off to another female and hearing how empowered she becomes when talking to one of my subs!  He paid for all our drinks that day, and even got us a bottle of champagne!

Alas, the trip was over and we hopped back on the plane to Colorado.  First class of course!

 

Until next vacation…..

Serving vs Transaction

One thing many of you get confused about is “serving.” I see accounts pop up all the time on twitter etc that say things such as “EvelynsSlave” with the profile saying they are owned by me and are my slave, that I have never even spoken to. I get guys contacting me constantly saying they want to serve me. Let’s dig a little deeper into the meaning of things… with an example, that I just had happen via Skype:

  • slave: I want to your cuckold so bad
  • me: Stop talking about doing it and actually fucking do it
  • slave: I’ve never done it
  • me: Well then stop saying you are my cuck, because you’re not my cuck unless you actually serve me
  • slave: i willl be your cuck
  • slave: ill buy your used condom
  • slave: what does his cum taste like goddess
  • me: : Being owned by me is more than just buying products from me, it means tributing me for our dates, lingerie and more stuff
  • me: Just because you buy a WebCam show does not mean you are my cuck

 

Serving – Per the dictionary, serving means being of use, assistance and help.

You can be of use, assistance and help by covering my bills, tributing me or buying me things off my wishlist. Cleaning my house, running errands for me etc. Serving me consists of expecting nothing in return from me.

Transaction – Per the dictionary, a transaction is a business deal.

If you buy a video, a webcam session, or call me on Niteflirt etc – ALL of those are business transactions. You are putting your needs before mine, because when you buy said product you are expecting that product in return. You are not being of assistance or use to me by buying a product. It’s literally just a transaction, and once it’s done we both go our separate ways.

Now, lets discuss in more detail a transaction. When you go to the store and buy something, say for instance some chicken, you buy the chicken and that’s that. You don’t go to the grocery store and buy just a chicken and expect all the other ingredients for the recipe for free, do you? If you want the rest of the ingredients, you have to buy them, another transaction. My point being, if you buy a video or a webcam session, that is literally all you are going to get. It does not entitle you to anything other than the product you purchased. Buy a video and want to chat? Pay to chat. Buy a webcam session and want to chat after? Pay to chat.

A lot of you can’t seem to grasp the concept that what I do is a BUSINESS.  It’s how I pay my bills. I’m not some 19 year old college student who does this in her spare time for a new pair of shoes.  I get emails, tweets, etc all day long.  Do I get paid to respond to your emails or tweets? NO.  Should I?  YES.  Do you work for free?  Are you going to work on that project your boss told you to do outside of your work hours, knowing you aren’t getting paid for it?  NO.  So why do you expect me to sit and chat with you for free then?  Chatting to me IS WORK.  Anytime I’m having to stop what I’m doing and give you attention, I’m working.  If you are taking up my time and attention and I get nothing in return, chances are I’m going to take my attention else where to a PAYING customer.

Now…

 

For those of you that think I just sit around all day long doing absolutely nothing.  That is 110% NOT the case.  I have put a lot of hard work and effort into building my business.  10 years later, I’m still here because of that hard work.  As I stated before, I get emails and tweets all day long.  Guess what?  I’m that person that always has their phone up their ass, looking at it 24/7 in public.  Why?  Because I literally work 24/7 to respond to your emails, tweets, etc.  I make videos, I do phone calls, I do webcam.  It’s not as simple as it seems.  Videos require ideas, which I have to come up with.  Video requires editing, uploading to multiple websites, writing descriptions, outfits, professional camera, professional lights.  I have to search for my own pirated videos every week even though I have a DMCA company that I hired, and it’s pretty discouraging to see my hard work being passed around for free.  I take photos every week specifically for work.  I don’t take ass or feet photos to post on my personal Facebook.  I am a one woman business, I literally do everything myself.  It’s a lot of work, and stressful.

 

With all of that said…

If you like or love the work I do, show your gratitude.  Not just to me, but to every other Domme/Cam girl/sex worker in the industry that you purchase from. I understand compliments are the first thing that comes to mind, but compliments don’t magically turn into $$, and compliments cannot pay the bills for me.  If they did, I’d be one of the richest people in the world.  I cannot go in a public place without getting eye-fucked by almost every male I pass.  I know I’m hot.  Your mouth dropping open the second I walk by states that perfectly clear.  How can you show your gratitude and appreciation?

  • Send a tribute (www.iWantEvelyn.com)
  • Buy me a gift on amazon (www.SpoilEvelyn.com)
  • promote me (retweet, write clip reviews)  @EvelynMilano_
  • anything that GIVES me something, with no expectation of anything in return

xoxo

Evelyn

USA Tour

I am hitting the road next month for my first USA Tour offering real time sessions.  So far, I have only announced 4 locations I’m hitting up.  I will be adding more cities and dates for 2018 by the end of the year!  Have a specific city request?  Reach out to me and let me know, I could be in your city next!  If you’re interested in booking a session, email me with your location and the date you would like.  There is a $1k minimum, and I will have a female friend with me who can join in at no extra charge!  Up to 4 fetishes included and 2 hours long.

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