Anti-adult policy Dilemmas

As many of you are aware, social media sites such as Facebook, Instagram and Twitter are hardcore cracking down on adult industry performers. Many performers accounts have already been shut down/banned in the least 1-2 years and now things such as being “shadow banned” and “hashtag banning” are happening to everyone. Social media banning has become an epidemic in its self.  It’s a shame that companies who once welcomed the adult industry are now pushing us off their platforms.

Just this week, more than half the posts I made on Facebook were removed and my Facebook page has been threatened numerous times to be “unpublished” due to violating their anti-adult content policies.


Two of my instagram posts this week have been removed and I am no longer able to use “branded content tools” on instagram due to their anti-adult policy.


It makes it hard for performers in the industry to post frequent updates when posts are constantly getting flagged and deleted.  It’s one of the many reasons I have been really slack on social media the last year and I think it’s important my fans know why.  The lack of updates/posts can be blamed on all the newish anti-adult policies that have been popping up everywhere and affecting accounts left and right.  It can be very frustrating as a performer to constantly deal with this, and I’d rather put my effort into my content/clips rather than spending hours on end updating social media just for it to get flagged and deleted!


I urge fans to go DIRECTLY to their fav performers stores/studios often to check for new content;  Just because you don’t see a social media update doesn’t mean there hasn’t been one… it was probably flagged and deleted! With just a few minor adjustments on your part such as going directly to performers stores instead of their social media, we can cut out the middle man and voila!


My previous newsletter account was shut down back over the summer due to their anti-adult policies as well, so please join my new one:


Used Shoes – Roxy Sandals For Sale

Super worn as fuck used shoes – roxy sandals

Toe imprint and everything

$100 Niteflirt tribute

Ships 2-3 day USA only

First to send gets them

Anddddd go!


Hi boys,

I’m sure you’ve all noticed I’m not around much.  I am semi-retired as of a few months ago.  I will still make new clips every once in awhile, and you can still order custom clips from me for the time being. 

I will be filming this coming week, so if you want to put in a custom clip order, do it within the next 48 hours.

I no longer offer webcam, or real time sessions.  I am also not available for chat anymore.  I will have my NF lines on once or twice a month, so if you see them on, jump at the opportunity to call me.

I will not be updating my twitter/instagram/social media anymore, so go directly to my stores to see new clips/content.

I will continue to update my members site with fresh content regularly, so be sure to join it to get your regular Evelyn fix.

It’s been a great 12 years, but I have decided to pursue other opportunities in my life.



Sign up here


This blog is for the ladies in the industry, whether you are new and looking where to start or have been around for a bit but still want the opinion of an established Veteran Domme in the industry.  I have been an online Domme now for 11 years and have dabbled in every website there is to sell clips, do phone, do webcam, take tributes etc.

Some are better than others, and here are my TOP recommendations:

NITEFLIRT – I have been on here since 2007.  You can sell clips, assignments, mp3s, and do phone/webcam calls on this site.  I have only had 3 chargebacks in my 11 years here.  They have daily payout as well as monthly.

CLIPS4SALE – I have been on here since 2009.  This place is great for traffic and selling clips.  Payouts are consistent and on a monthly basis.

IWANTCLIPS – I have been on here a few years now.  This place does clips, phone, cam and custom clips.  Their chargeback protection that you can opt in for is amazing.  They do daily payouts.

ADULT MEMBER SITES (MEMBERSHIP SITES) – I joined here in 2017.  Payouts are twice a month, and this is a great place to recycle old content that doesn’t sell anymore such as clips as passive income.


Less preferred, but mainly because they don’t cater to my clientele or have bad traffic:

ManyVids – Their fetish clientele is building slowly, so use this as a back up site.

Kinkbomb – I don’t upload here anymore.  The traffic was bad and I had a lot of chargebacks and refunds.

SextPanther – The site didn’t have much traffic and appears to cater more to vanilla porn.


Birthday & Christmas WANTS

Hi boys!  It’s that time of year again!  My birthday is December 8th and Christmas is shortly after.  What does that mean?  Time to spoil the Elite Sadistic Humiliatrix you just can’t get enough of!  Don’t wait until last minute, I do notice boys who spoil me and ignore those who don’t!

Top items I want for my birthday and Christmas this year:



ULTA giftcards

PETSMART giftcards

APPLE giftcards

AMC Theater giftcards

Apple MacBook Pro

Canon Vixia Camcorder








Preferred Sites

I get asked quite frequently which websites do I prefer subs send tributes on, buy clips on etc, here is your answer(note these are liable to change in the future):


  1. Niteflirt (I get 70%)
  2. iWantClips (I get 75% but prefer NF first)


  1. Niteflirt (I get 70%)
  2. Clips4Sale (I get 60%)
  3. iWantClips (I get 55%)


  1. Niteflirt (I get roughly 68%)
  2. iWantPhone (I get 65%)


I get asked about AMAZON quite frequently.  I do love receiving Amazon e gift cards every once in a while, but you can’t exactly pay bills with an amazon gift card.  I generally prefer CASH/TRIBUTE over Amazon, unless there is something specific I need/want on amazon at that point in time.  It’s best to reach out to me and ask which I want at that point in time!


I always accept random gift cards from subs from the following places:



All About Me

Hi boys.  I had a request to do a more personal blog post about myself.  Here are some things about me outside of online:


Fav color:  Turquoise/Teal/Blue

Fav ice cream flavor:  Chocolate

How I cook my steak:  Medium Well

Fav Drink at Starbucks:  Vanilla Latte w/ almond milk

Fav actors/actress: Alexander Skarsgard, Anthony Hopkins, Ryan Gosling, Jake Gyllenhaal, James Mcavoy, Vin Diesel, Emelia Clarke, Meryl Streep, Edward Norton

Fav place to travel:  Caribbean (beaches w/ blue/clear water are my addiction!)

Fav flower: Gerbera Daisy & Sunflower

Fav video game:  Diablo 1, 2 & 3

Fav car color: Grey (a majority of my cars have been grey)

Fav TV shows growing up:  Xena, Hercules, Charmed, Unsolved Mysteries

Fav TV/Movie genre:  Horror/Scifi

Current TV shows:  The Sinner, Shameless, The Royals, The Flash, Santa Clarita Diet, Siren

Tattoos:  Left wrist HRC/equal rights symbol, right wrist dogs names in an infinity sign, right ankle eye of Horus and ankh, pelvic area leopard spots, lower back tribal (which will soon be covered up)

Fav season: Spring/Fall

Fav Current Musicians:  Shawn Mendes, Charlie Puth, Iggy Azalea, Jason Derulo, Selena Gomez, Tove Lo, Taylor Swift



Curacao Trip

Late June – Early July, I went on vacation to Curacao.  I stayed right on the beach in an amazing condo at the Blue Bay Private resort with my best friend.  We spent a week sunbathing, swimming, sight seeing , shopping and having fun!  I even took a few phone calls and drained wallets while laying on the beach. Life literally can’t get any better than this!

I highly recommend Curacao as a vacation destination.

I visited Shete Boka National Park, Boca Tabla, Mount Christoffel, Flamingo Sanctuary, Watamula Hole & many other places!

Here are a few photos from my trip, enjoy boys!  Work hard and fund my next vacation!


I literally had my own private beach with my bestie.  It was AMAZING!

The condo was $1500, and my flight was $1000(First class, duh!).  I spent roughly another $750 on food and gifts.  Be a good boy and reimburse my expenses, it will bring a smile to my face!


How To Please Me

So many of you always ask what can you do to please me? What can you do to be a better sub?  How can you stand out from the rest?  Being my sub doesn’t just mean applying, sending tributes and rarely hearing from you.



It’s pretty easy for you to google the basics on how to be a sub, if you are brand new or not sure what to do.  I have been in the industry for 11 years now, and do not have the time nor energy to teach you the basics of being a submissive.

I will not just start telling you all about myself, you can research me very easily online.  Read my website, read all the interviews I’ve done.  Listen to podcasts I’ve been on.  Make yourself familiar with things I like, things I don’t like.



Tell me what fetishes you’re into and not into.  Let me know about any and all experience you’ve had as a submissive.  Message me regularly, with meaningful conversation.  I prefer to speak with my subs on a regular basis, and get to know them as they get to know me. Don’t expect me to sit and have very long conversations with you unless you are tributing me regularly because I could be spending my time with another sub who values my time more.



Serving more than one Domme, tributing more than one person?  STOP.  You are spreading yourself thin between too many people.  Small tributes will only get you an ounce of attention, if that.  If you’re jumping around from one Domme to another, you’re never going to fully please anyone.  Half hearted tributes from community sluts don’t hold the same value as a tribute from a loyal devoted sub.  Stick to one Domme and tribute her regularly.  Build a long term relationship, rather than short-term meaningless ones.



I deal with thousands of subs online.  If you really want to impress me, you need to stand out from the crowd.  Do things that please me such as; promoting me whether it be on twitter or forums, search for my pirated content and send me links, send me a poem every week, tribute regularly, buy me gifts regularly, ask if there are any tasks I need done online etc.  I recently had a new sub of mine write “EM <3” in the sand at the beach and he snapped a photo and sent it to me.  Things like this get my attention.

Any time I post a bill on twitter, be the first person to pay for it!  You can always ask to pay for a night out as well!

Having a screen name like “Cuckold123” or “Paypig478” isn’t going to do you any good.  Create a unique screen name that will catch my attention.  Put my photo as your profile photo, put my links on your profile.  Show you are devoted to me.

Call me on Niteflirt or iWantClips!  Do webcam sessions with me!  If you’re a regular caller, I will most certainly remember your voice and/or your face!

A slaves guide to Amazon

Many submissive’s do not know how to properly browse a FemDom’s Amazon wishlist, or use Amazon services to their benefit. There are many things about amazon that can save you money in the long run, as well as speed up shipping time and please your Domme even more!  If you open my wishlist link below and follow as you read, it will make it easier to understand.



For only $99 a year, you can have amazon prime.  If you are a student, you can get it for $49 a year by using your .edu email address!  If you buy gifts regularly, you’ll save money by signing up for this.

What are the benefits?

FREE 2 day shipping (this is the most important one)

Prime Video

Prime Music

Prime Reading

& more



Amazon allows you to sort by priority.  You can do this on an amazon wishlist by looking near the top right, for the drop down that says “Filter & Sort” and then scroll down to “Priority (high to low).”  This means things that I need immediately I mark as “high priority” where as things I want but don’t need immediately are regular priority.  You should ALWAYS buy things for your Domme that are marked “HIGH PRIORITY” first!  Simply skipping over something marked as “high priority” because you see a sexy pair of shoes or lingerie you want me to have is disrespectful and not following orders.



Amazon allows you to have multiple wishlists!  This can come in handy when you want separate lists for things such as shoes, or household items.  However, you CANNOT see all of them unless you are LOGGED INTO your amazon account!  If you look over to the left side, you will see multiple listed once you are logged in (if your Domme has multiple.). I have “MOST WANTED” set as my default wishlist, because it is things I want the most and deem more important.  However, I also have other ones such as “SHOES”, “GIFTCARDS” etc!



If you don’t put that the gift card/gift is from you, how am I supposed to know who sent it?  I get tons of anonymous gifts/tributes regularly.  It is very important to put your name and/or email address on the gift card/gift so I can know whether it’s a tribute or is supposed to be used for something else such as a custom clip or webcam.  Including a cute little message to me will also get my attention.


This is all the Amazon advice I have for now,  but if anything changes or needs to be added, I will update this!