One thing many of you get confused about is “serving.” I see accounts pop up all the time on twitter etc that say things such as “EvelynsSlave” with the profile saying they are owned by me and are my slave, that I have never even spoken to. I get guys contacting me constantly saying they want to serve me. Let’s dig a little deeper into the meaning of things… with an example, that I just had happen via Skype:
- slave: I want to your cuckold so bad
- me: Stop talking about doing it and actually fucking do it
- slave: I’ve never done it
- me: Well then stop saying you are my cuck, because you’re not my cuck unless you actually serve me
- slave: i willl be your cuck
- slave: ill buy your used condom
- slave: what does his cum taste like goddess
- me: : Being owned by me is more than just buying products from me, it means tributing me for our dates, lingerie and more stuff
- me: Just because you buy a WebCam show does not mean you are my cuck
Serving – Per the dictionary, serving means being of use, assistance and help.
You can be of use, assistance and help by covering my bills, tributing me or buying me things off my wishlist. Cleaning my house, running errands for me etc. Serving me consists of expecting nothing in return from me.
Transaction – Per the dictionary, a transaction is a business deal.
If you buy a video, a webcam session, or call me on Niteflirt etc – ALL of those are business transactions. You are putting your needs before mine, because when you buy said product you are expecting that product in return. You are not being of assistance or use to me by buying a product. It’s literally just a transaction, and once it’s done we both go our separate ways.
Now, lets discuss in more detail a transaction. When you go to the store and buy something, say for instance some chicken, you buy the chicken and that’s that. You don’t go to the grocery store and buy just a chicken and expect all the other ingredients for the recipe for free, do you? If you want the rest of the ingredients, you have to buy them, another transaction. My point being, if you buy a video or a webcam session, that is literally all you are going to get. It does not entitle you to anything other than the product you purchased. Buy a video and want to chat? Pay to chat. Buy a webcam session and want to chat after? Pay to chat.
A lot of you can’t seem to grasp the concept that what I do is a BUSINESS. It’s how I pay my bills. I’m not some 19 year old college student who does this in her spare time for a new pair of shoes. I get emails, tweets, etc all day long. Do I get paid to respond to your emails or tweets? NO. Should I? YES. Do you work for free? Are you going to work on that project your boss told you to do outside of your work hours, knowing you aren’t getting paid for it? NO. So why do you expect me to sit and chat with you for free then? Chatting to me IS WORK. Anytime I’m having to stop what I’m doing and give you attention, I’m working. If you are taking up my time and attention and I get nothing in return, chances are I’m going to take my attention else where to a PAYING customer.
For those of you that think I just sit around all day long doing absolutely nothing. That is 110% NOT the case. I have put a lot of hard work and effort into building my business. 10 years later, I’m still here because of that hard work. As I stated before, I get emails and tweets all day long. Guess what? I’m that person that always has their phone up their ass, looking at it 24/7 in public. Why? Because I literally work 24/7 to respond to your emails, tweets, etc. I make videos, I do phone calls, I do webcam. It’s not as simple as it seems. Videos require ideas, which I have to come up with. Video requires editing, uploading to multiple websites, writing descriptions, outfits, professional camera, professional lights. I have to search for my own pirated videos every week even though I have a DMCA company that I hired, and it’s pretty discouraging to see my hard work being passed around for free. I take photos every week specifically for work. I don’t take ass or feet photos to post on my personal Facebook. I am a one woman business, I literally do everything myself. It’s a lot of work, and stressful.
With all of that said…
If you like or love the work I do, show your gratitude. Not just to me, but to every other Domme/Cam girl/sex worker in the industry that you purchase from. I understand compliments are the first thing that comes to mind, but compliments don’t magically turn into $$, and compliments cannot pay the bills for me. If they did, I’d be one of the richest people in the world. I cannot go in a public place without getting eye-fucked by almost every male I pass. I know I’m hot. Your mouth dropping open the second I walk by states that perfectly clear. How can you show your gratitude and appreciation?
- Send a tribute (www.iWantEvelyn.com)
- Buy me a gift on amazon (www.SpoilEvelyn.com)
- promote me (retweet, write clip reviews) @EvelynMilano_
- anything that GIVES me something, with no expectation of anything in return